Dear Rhona,

I decided years ago that I was going to age naturally, no botox, no facelifts, no fillers. I don’t want to mess with the natural process and above all, want to be a good example for my daughter. How can I mentor her on positive body image if I’m altering my own face?

The problem is, some of my closest friends have started to have regular botox and they look fantastic, fresher than they have in years. I was surprised initially as thought that they would have frozen face straight away but you’d never even know. My resolve not to do it is slipping, my face is looking older and more weathered compared to them and I’m starting to feel crap about myself.